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Book Summary

  • In the familiar setting of Holt, Colorado, home to all of Kent Haruf's inimitable fiction, Addie Moore pays an unexpected visit to a neighbor, Louis Waters. Her husband died years ago, as did his wife, and in such a small town they naturally have known of each other for decades; in fact, Addie was quite fond of Louis's wife. His daughter lives hours away, her son even farther, and Addie and Louis have long been living alone in empty houses, the nights so terribly lonely, especially with no one to talk with. But maybe that could change? As Addie and Louis come to know each other better--their pleasures and their difficulties--a beautiful story of second chances unfolds, making Our Souls at Night the perfect final installment to this beloved writer's enduring contribution to American literature.
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Discussion Questions

1. What does the title mean?


2. The novel begins with the word “and”: “And then there was the day when Addie Moore made a call on Louis Waters.” What do you imagine came before it?


3. Kent Haruf was known for using simple, spare language to create stories of great depth. How does the modest action in Our Souls at Night open onto larger insights about getting older?


4. It takes a considerable amount of courage for a woman of Addie’s generation to invite a man she hardly knows to sleep in her bed. What do you think propelled her to do it?


5. When Louis comes over for the first time, he knocks on her back door in the name of discretion. Addie says, “I made up my mind I’m not going to pay attention to what people think. I’ve done that too long—all my life. I’m not going to live that way anymore. The alley makes it seem we’re doing something wrong or something disgraceful, to be ashamed of” (8). How does her attitude influence Louis’s?


6. Both Louis and Addie have to contend with gossip about their relationship. Who handles it better?


7. What does Addie’s friendship with Ruth show us about Addie’s character?


8. Addie and Louis both had troubled marriages, but stayed married until their partners died. How does that sense of propriety, of loyalty, influence their relationship with each other?


9. In describing his affair, Louis says, “I think I regret hurting Tamara more than I do hurting my wife. I failed my spirit or something” (42). What does he mean by this?


10. Why did Addie refuse to move after Connie’s death? How did this decision color Gene’s reaction to his mother’s late-in-life love affair?


11. On page 52, Louis describes his relationship with Addie to his daughter, “It’s some kind of decision to be free. Even at our ages.” Why does he feel freer with Addie than he does alone? How does his behavior become more uninhibited as the novel progresses?


12. How does Jamie’s arrival deepen the connection between Addie and Louis?


13. When Louis confesses that he wanted to be a poet, what effect does it have on Addie’s opinion of him? And on your opinion?


14. Addie and Louis both have regrets about the way they raised their children. How does that influence their relationship with Jamie?


15. Why did Addie buy new clothes for her trips to Denver that she never wears in Holt? What signal does it send to the reader?


16. On page 145, Addie mentions the Denver Center for the Performing Arts production of Benediction, based on the author’s own novel. Addie and Louis discuss the fact that it’s set in Holt, the fictional town in which they live. Why do you think Haruf slipped this into the story?


17. At the end of that conversation, Addie says, “Who would have thought at this time in our lives that we’d still have something like this. That it turns out we’re not finished with changes and excitements. And not all dried up in body and spirit” (147). What point is Haruf making?


18. Jamie’s arrival ultimately leads to grave consequences. What is Gene afraid of?


19. Several times during the novel, Addie is described as being brave, but she gives in to Gene’s demands. Is this a brave act? What is she protecting?


20. How would you describe the ending—as heartbreaking, hopeful, or something else?


21. In his final interview, conducted a few days before his death from interstitial lung disease, Haruf discussed Our Souls at Night: “The idea for the book has been floating around in my mind for quite a while. Now that I know I have, you know—a limited time—it was important to me to try to make good use of that time. So I went out there every day. Typically, I have always had a story pretty well plotted out before I start writing. This time I knew generally where the story was going, but I didn’t know very many of the details. So as it happened, I went out every day trusting myself to be able to add to the story each day. So I essentially wrote a new short chapter of the book every day. I’ve never had that experience before. I don’t want to get too fancy about it, but it was like something else was working to help me get this done. Call it a muse or spiritual guidance, I don’t know. All I know is that the trust I had in being able to write every day was helpful.” How does reading this affect your understanding of the book?

Interview with the Author

Kent Haruf’s Our Souls at Night: "a book about us"

(Interview with Cathy Haruf)


Just before Christmas 2014, we received a very special submission: a new novel by Kent Haruf, the author of the Plainsong books. Our Souls at Night is an exquisite book made all the more poignant by the fact that Kent very sadly passed away just a week after we received the book, and two days before the final copyedit was finished. We spoke to his wife, Cathy, about Kent’s writing and what this book means to her.​​


What was the inspiration behind Our Souls at Night?


Kent said to me at the end of April, 'I am going to write a book about us.' His favorite time of all was when we would lie in bed at night, hold hands and talk about everything – living, dying, our spirits, our lovely children, our dear friends, this story, my hospice work, funny happenings, our great years together, frustrations, resentments, our feelings for each other and whatever went on that day. (It was very important to Kent and me that we stay current with each other about everything.)


He said he wanted to write about the idea of two old people talking at night. Our Souls at Night is a love story about a man and a woman who decide to live from their truth and authenticity in the face of criticism and judgment.


Can you talk a bit about the writing of it?


Kent was feeling a little better in the middle of April 2014 and he needed to be doing something. He tried writing a short story and said, 'That didn’t go anywhere'. Then he came in one day and said, 'I am going to write a book about us.' On the morning of May 1, he took himself and his oxygen tank out to his writing shed and wrote a chapter a day for 45 days. He felt a great satisfaction. He was so pleased and every day he would come in for lunch and say, 'Another chapter!' It usually took him six years to write a novel and he was utterly astounded that he could write a chapter each day. But he knew he was on a deadline and he was determined to finish it before he died.


He typed on an old Royal upright typewriter. When he typed his first draft of each chapter he would pull a stocking cap down over his eyes and write “blind” so he wouldn’t be distracted by spelling, syntax or punctuation. He then wrote notes all over that first draft and retyped it double-spaced on his favorite old yellow paper. By the middle of August he said he was ready for me to read it. I read the manuscript, entered it into the computer and for the next month made whatever changes he wanted. And proofread it over and over again. In September 2014, we emailed it to his editor in the USA, Gary Fisketjon, at Knopf, with a note, 'Dear Gary, Here’s little surprise for you. Love, Kent.' The manuscript went back and forth for several weeks and three days before he died Kent said that I would have to do the final copyedit. So two days after he died it was finished and sent off.


What does the publication of Our Souls at Night mean to you?


The most important thing to me was that Kent had such a good time writing this book and that he was able to finish it before he died. He worked on it as long as he could, right up to the last minute. He was passionate about writing and finishing it and sending it off to his editor, Gary Fisketjon – as a surprise. And it certainly was a surprise for Gary.


Kent and I had such a good time discussing the story. He didn’t want anyone to know he was writing in case he wasn’t able to finish it – and he really wanted to be around to see how the book was received. I think Kent probably is aware of all that. Our Souls at Night is a great gift to me.


How would you describe Kent’s characters?


As anyone who has read Kent’s books knows, his characters come in all varieties. The protagonists are layered. No character is all good or bad. They are all human, behaving in the ways we all do – with fears, love, meanness, joy, sadness.


Kent himself felt very strongly the hurt and sadness in the world. He was a very tender, loving and sensitive person, which of course, comes out in his characters.


Families are at the heart of Kent’s novels. What was his understanding of the word?


In Plainsong and subsequent books, Kent wrote about family as kindred spirits; people who love each other, help and support each other – those we choose to include and embrace as family in addition to those we’re biologically related to. That was definitely how he felt and lived.


As well as writing his own books, Kent taught creative writing. What advice did he give his students?


Kent would tell his creative writing students, 'There is no lack of talent for writing. But there is a lack of talent for hard work. Read everything you can get your hands on. Read, read, read. (Kent himself greatly admired Faulkner, Hemingway and especially Chekhov.) Write and write and write. Every day. Get black on white. Write what you know. Don’t let other people overly influence your own voice. Listen to instructors or teachers but then let it all go and be true to your own vision and voice.'


Kent didn’t believe in 'inspiration' when it came to writing a novel. It was hard work; showing up every day at his desk whether he felt like it or not; he didn’t want to take the chance that he might miss something important.